So first, you really won’t need to lube any switches, and yes, having to do so is one of my least favorite parts of the hobby so I don’t, in general, bother with any of that.
If you want to go with out-of-the-box, you might consider some of these:
- WASD Keyboards makes a range of options and allows a lot of customization: www.wasdkeyboards.com
- One of my previous colleagues, a programmer, loved his Das Keyboard. He got the all-black model without legends: Das keyboard - Mechanical Keyboard
If you go with a Realforce or Leopold Topre keyboard, definitely go for the silent option. Those will cost significantly more, but it will be so worth. For what it’'s worth, between the Realforce and the Leopold, I definitely love the Leopold more. I have an FC660C (45g silent switch) which is smaller than a full-size, but it so thoughtfully laid out it’s very functional.