I didn’t read the full thread in detail, just a brief summary.
I can’t speak for the community, but my experience in the hobby (reddit/GH/KT/DT) has been that it has often bordered on circle-jerk. Not the majority of the time, by any means, but frequent enough to realize there is some preference derived elitism / toxicity baked in.
Everybody is on a quest to learn about the hobby and find their preferred input device. It’s not a leap to expect that some of these folks will offer valuable design feedback or criticism, try convince others of their preference / truth, or even, at times, gatekeep. I think you’ve experienced a little bit of all of these.
I feel as though many of the community’s agreed upon best practices are a living, moving target, derived from a mean preference. Some things directly affect marketability (cap compatibility), while others are purely aesthetic (pcb tracing).
That said, I can confidently say that, barring performance based recommendations, none of these things are the truth. They are just our truth. Your board conflicts with several of our truths, and so we admire, comment on, ridicule, and even attack these differences.
I can also confidently say that what the vocal minority that left a bad taste in your mouth is just that; a minority. I think most of us recognize that even a unique design such as yours is a culmination of preference and need, and is perfect for someone. Part of existing in this hobby is respecting the preference of others, right or wrong in your mind.
I hope sticking with the community will yield a different experience for you than this thread.
I’m sure others will beg to differ, this is just my op-ed.