So here is a list of hardware I think makes for a good starter pack for people who think they will be building multiple boards for themselves. Please let people know other ideas/gear you can think of!
with this kit you do not need the bottom holder/cleaner but it takes more room on your desk.
Stand and tip cleaner:
Good cheap brand buy the size you want 025 or 032 diameter
Or any ESD tweezer you prefer
^- missing hex 2.5 but fantastic shape and bit lenght
and of course the fancy set
Switches: size 0000 brush in your price point
Stabs: size 000 brush in your price point
Screw in stab washers:
Search for IC puller and get the cheapest one you find at the time with shipping you are willing to wait on heh